Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Gaining confidence of leaders


This week Parker responds to my questions about him being old on the mission and not caring.(the last 2 emails) I needed clarification as to what exactly that meant. I was just a little concerned that the mission had lost its sparkle. . . .but he sets me straight! enjoy

mom, please stop talking about me losing enthusiasm on the mission, youre not understanding me, i think youre thinking that im trying to say i dont care about the mission anymore cause im old, im trying to say that im so old on the mission that i dont care about anything but the mission anymore. im not passing through anything difficult either mom but if you keep putting stuff like that in the emails im gonna go crazy.
    nah dakota doesnt need to work, just go on the mission you mole rapaz. why would he want to wait, if he leaves as soon as possible maybe he could come to my misson and i could see him in the field.
    it rained this whole week entirely so it wasnt that good to work in but we still found some  people. we baptized this young man thats a really special kid. hes 14, his baptism was really good because it was a reference from the 1st counselor in the bishopric in my ward. and that same counselor baptized him so hes all excited now about missionary work and he loves me now. that same counselor gave me a reference about a month and half ago and i baptized him also so now the first counselor loves me, im finally gaining the confidence of the leaders here. that same counselor cussed me out on the phone like my 5th week here becuase i was pushing him to hard to help with his own reference being baptized, now hes hugging me and inviting me to family nights in his house every monday hehe! remember how i told you that this area wasnt baptizing very much and all the members were not wanting to help at all in missionary work and the bishopric was getting mad because i was baptizing people that they felt werent prepared so the bishop made that  rule that we can only baptize on saturday nights? everythings changed now! now i have there confidence! bishop used to avoid me and not answer my calls and now hes pulling me aside and telling me who i need to visit and who needs help and hes wanting to help now! its because the last two references that the ward gave me ive baptized so now everyones all excited and starting to give more references and wanting to help, theyre really starting to trust me now here. the leadership was cold here though, took them almost 2 months to finally warm up to me. bishop and the first counselor both pulled me and my comp aside and talked to me about teaching the investigators that are in the other elders area. our ward has 2 sets of missionaries and so the ward is divided in half. the other area has recieved really really good references in the last month and they havent baptized any of them.were talking a family of 3, really cool also and another family of 5 and they still have done basically nothing with them, so bishop pulled me aside and told me that he understands its not my area but he would like that i started teaching them instead of the others, i cant though its not my area. but that means a lot  to me becuase of the trust, its funny though because a month ago they were telling me that im baptizing people before there prepared and now there coming to me and telling me theyd like me to start teaching them because ive got a "faster vision then the other missoinaries". im so grateful though because i have been praying and fasting and praying and fasting for them to finally start to help and trust me. i even talked to pres. tavares about this like 3 weeks ago and he said to just serve them and and continue praying and fasting. so we helped rake one of there lawns and continued praying and fasting and now were seeing the benefits.
  ya i got the package, it takes about 12 days to arrive. love you mom and family.
    -  Elder Bennett
Dad,
haha thats a pretty funny photo of them, (picture was of Riley, his brother , his cousin Dakota and a friend named Devin) they just randomly decided to nap together on the trampoline? when you talk about devin are you talking about devin hankes? are they in your ward now?
   ya were all really blessed to have the gospel in our lives but the only way to show real gratitude is by sharing it with others...
  how is dakota doing? preparing to serve a mission this summer or is he thinking about waiting? is he gonna graduate from seminary, i want him to get called to my mission in londrina and he cant if he doesnt graduate from seminary.
    the work is going good here, rained the whole week though, ive never seen anything like it, from monday until thursday and half of friday it rained. for 4 days straight you just fell asleep to rain woke up to rain and worked in the rain haha. i like the rain about 1 time a week but more then that, no.
   well this week was really good and the Lord is blessing us with miracles and baptisms and more people to baptize! love ya dad!
                                    - Elder Bennett

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